Here's Min, 20 or so years ago, on Musselman's Lake. She never, ever backed away from anything, had more class than any woman I know and had the wickedest sense of humour. The fact that her real name was Lillian Elizabeth but she carried around the nickname of Spotty Minnie Bannister from the old "Goon Show" radio shows for over thirty years attests to that.
Today we found out that a woman walking her dog the night Min disappeared saw her, distraught, on the sea wall. It was dark and stormy and the police believe that she definitely was washed out to sea. I guess it's harder to feel closure when there's no body, but I feel like I should say my goodbyes now.
posted by Anne at 12:55 p.m.
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Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.
~ The Desiderata
speaking of her's wickedest sense of humour, that's how i got it:
no matter Min chose to do it or not, i have a feeling that when she comes back, she will not tell us a sad story. i bet she will tell you a joke about how she went astray. so prepare to laugh with her...
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